The women have been friends since they started college ... almost 30 years. We all agree we look great and isn't it funny how men age more quickly? All be it, our collective list of ailments starting at age 40, and then again at age 50 for some, might betray our mental youthfulness. But, as we giggle and drink and gossip, we definitively are still the young women who shared so much when we started our adult lives together.
The theme of the night is Pink. How ironic.
Pink is the color of Phi Mu, the college sorority that binds the seven of us. And pink is the color that represents breast cancer. The guest of honor is the first of the group to be diagnosed with breast cancer.
This party is a Bye Bye
Mostly the boisterous conversation is about catching up on the usual topics of kids, work, indulgences, travel, health, etc. The common theme for this array of women is strength. A-type personalities abound. Mutual respect runs high. Clever, funny commentary is the norm.
But the discussion turns serious at points. We hear about the mothers of these lovely women who have survived breast cancer. There are questions which include the whys surrounding the choice of a double mastectomy. There are eyes that tear up with genuine caring. The tears that started before this gathering for their sister.
The end of the night brings hugs that are just an extra bit tighter and longer than usual. The Love in Our Bond is readily felt by the one of the group who appears confident and strong but has a cancer growing inside.
Thank you to my dear lifelong friends for being there last night and through out the many years and in the days to come ...
|Graduation Celebration 1987!|
|Red Cups are timeless as are these friendships ...|
|Spring 1987 ... Moving into the real world ... after lots of drinks & a limo, of course.|
|Love in Our Bond|
|Pre-Party or Real Party?|
|Spring 1987 - Hair anyone?|
|Always, always a good time.|
|Much more than friends from the first sighting ... kindred spirits still.|
|More shopping ...|
|These are truly the Life of the Party - then and today!|
|Only Eye Candy.|
|Married and Definitely Not Married.|
|It is only a few actuarial exams ...|